Freaking Out Because He’s Gone? Here’s The First Step To Get Him Back…

So, he’s gone and you feel like you’re going insane.

Have you already texted him a million times?

Have you begged him for closure?

Facebook stalked him?

Uh Oh!

That’s not good!

…but it’s not a total loss yet!

I want you to watch this…

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Inhale

Exhale

Inhale Exhale

Okay, are you with me?

Good!

I’m going to tell you what to do to save the relationship from getting worse and completely unsalvageable to… back in the game and having him wondering why he left in the first place.

First, and this might seem obvious to you, but let me explain why freaking out is not going to help and why pulling yourself together before trying to get him back is the first and most essential step.

Remember back to that moment when the two of you met?

Or better yet to that moment where it was undoubtable that he wanted you?

Now, look at yourself in that moment. Why were you so irresistible to him?

Well, I can tell you it probably wasn’t because you were a crying emotional mess!

And you probably were very beautifully put together, radiant, even… maybe you even had him wrapped around your little finger because he didn’t quite know if he could have you or not and it drove him crazy.

Okay, so back to right now, and I don’t want to make light of your pain because I know you are hurting.

But tell me something, if he had met you in the state that you are right now, would he want to be with you?

Would he want to be with someone who is displaying signs of being incredibly emotionally unstable?

Again, I’m not trying to hurt your feelings, I just want you to see that being a hot mess isn’t going to get him back! And it isn’t going to make you feel any better.

So pull yourself together for me and calm down.

Your calm, old self is the first step in getting him back.

Because that’s who he fell in love with in the first place.

Stop texting him.

Stop calling him.

If you’ve thought about doing some light stalking, you better log out of that Facebook girl!

Start acting like yourself again and get him back.

He fell in love with a mystery… not with the woman who’s emotionally vomiting all over his technology right now!

You might think, well that’s easier said than done.

Well, maybe so, but I can tell you that if you get calm, and go radio silent just like he did, even if it’s for a day or two… better yet a few weeks. It will start to make him confused.

And confusion is what you want on his part, because right now he’s totally solid in his decision to stay away from you because you are not acting like yourself and instead acting like a crazy person after the breakup.

So, this is my first tip for getting him back.

Start acting like yourself again by being calm and getting back to that mystery woman who he initially fell in love with.

Stop texting him, calling him, stalking him. Get back to your own life, and you will find that he is curious about what you’re up to.

Look out for more tips on what to do next.

Here’s to healing your heart!

 

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with gratitude,

Katya Morozova

Breakup Advice Counselor

katya@breakupadvice.com

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